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Hey friend, 

Community, friendship, companionship are all beautiful & potentially fulfilling things. 

They can all be great tools for growth & a deeper experience of what you are. 

But consider that for most- they are a useful distraction. 

Most structure their lives around the movements, actions, desires of others. 

Most live in such a way that it would encouraged, and convenient for those around them. 

Most sacrifice their authenticity & highest expression in order to fit in.

Consider, that in order to be received by the world, 

You must first receive yourself

And in this process whether you are received by others becomes irrelevant. 

Collaboration with likeminded & aligned individuals is beautiful 

But in the receiving of yourself, it’s not necessarily something that needs to be sought out or pursued or created

But its a natural by-product. 

That when you step into what you are, everything that resonates will come into your space. 

So there is no need to hold on, manage, or seek relationships.

There is no need to drag people along with you, or to live in a way that might please them.

Your life is for you. 

Your life is about you. 

Your life is the great adventure into you. 

In the connection to the most essential part of what you are, you no longer need to lose yourself in the consideration of others-

You can give the best of your attention into the space that you are creating.

-Jay

Jay Topp is a 24 year old writer, marketer, film maker & self-led educator originally from Australia, now based in Buenos Aires, Argentina. You can see his films here. Instagram here. And his business website here.

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